5 lies and One Truth!

1) I love cooking

2) I appeared on a reality tv show

3) I had to get stiches on my head.

4) I've met lil wayne and we hung out

5) My favorite color is hot pink

6) This english class is an easy A

Blog #9 Picture :)

This is my chubs. i must warn u, he loves to smother people with lots of kisses. lol

Fatal Attraction

I always been attracted in the bad boy type; tattoos, buff, carefree and dangerous. These characteristics got my adrenaline pumping to the point where I would feel weak when I was around one. Sadly, I ended up being blinded by love from someone who fell into those categories.

In high school I started talking to a guy who I knew was trouble, me being naive I went for it. Frankie was one tough kid, always making deviant decisions; never really cared for those around him. As I started dating him, I notice that he was beginning to verbally abuse me by cussing at me all the time and putting me down. He would always tell me “I’m sorry” and me being blind, I accepted his apology all the time. Frankie was gang affiliated and was always in and out of juvenile hall. He constantly was out in the streets committing gang related crimes. He could be the sweetest guy but at times his mood would always change with me as if he was bipolar. He begins to become possessive with me to the point where he would tell me “where was I at, with whom?”  “I don’t want you to be going out”.  This wasn’t love, it scared me and I just couldn’t deal with that anymore. I ended it completely because I realize that dating a guy like that isn’t going to get me anywhere in life. This change came gradually for me and it affected me in a positive way because now I don’t date bad boys who are trouble.  This relationship not only affected me but those around me. My parents never approved of him and always tried to keep him away from me, even though I wouldn’t want that. This was a lesson learned for me.

FAMiLY

Three words that come to my mind when I hear the word Family is unconditional love, a social bond and support.

My family is the best thing that I could ever have, and are my happiness whenever I come home. Sometimes I may argue with my parents, sisters and brothers but deep down inside I have that unconditional love for them in which I can’t stay mad at them. My unconditional love for my family is very strong because when someone says anything about them or they are going through issues, I defend them and stick by them through the rough times and the good times. Love for a family could also be accepting their mistakes and helping them move on from it.

Having a social bond with people you love the most is amazing. I’m really close to my sister, she is like my best friend and someone who I look up to and ask for advice. We never get mad at each other and if we do, it’s about a small stupid thing. We hang out, talk all night until she says “Shut up, I’m going to sleep now” and the next morning she wakes me up, which I hate and I scream at her. Yep that’s real love. My mom and I are really close; we can laugh about certain things and joke around. She has a heart of gold and I can talk to her about anything.

Support from a family is important because if you fall down a couple times they are always there to hold your hand. Without support, I don’t think I would be the person I am today. They have always encouraged me to go to school and get an education. They always support the decisions I make and if I’m going through something, they give me comfort in return. Not only do they support me emotionally but they do support me financially. As long as I go to school, my parents help me financially with stuff I need. My family is always by my side in my goals and in my faults. There the people who understand me the most and are accepting when it comes to a time in my life where I don’t know which way to turn.

Therefore, family is what brings everybody together. It is a wonderful feeling to enjoy the happiest moments with your siblings and parents.